

How to Explore Your Sexual Fantasies Without Shame | ft. Sexologist Carol Queen
Aug 18, 2025
In a captivating conversation, Carol Queen, a renowned sexologist and co-founder of the Center for Sex and Culture, shares her insights into revitalizing intimacy. She discusses integrating masturbation into self-care, innovative techniques for enhancing routine encounters, and the evolution of sexual discourse. Carol emphasizes the importance of finding a supportive community for diverse sexual expressions and encourages open communication in relationships. This enlightening dialogue celebrates consent, inclusivity, and the necessity of pleasure in everyday life.
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Use Sensory Tricks To Reinvent Sex
- Try simple sensory changes to spice up repetitive hookups: blindfolds, ice, warming lubes, and a vibrating cock ring.
- Add atmosphere by showering together, using scented massage oils, or changing location to heighten arousal.
Take Proactive Steps Against UTIs
- Prevent recurring UTIs by consulting a gynecologist and considering preventative supplements like Uqora products.
- Also maintain hygiene routines and get medical evaluation for persistent infections.
Sex Talk Moved Into The Mainstream
- Sexual discourse moved from underground zines to mainstream outlets like the New York Times and Atlantic.
- Carol Queen says this shift made sex part of broader cultural reckonings and normal public conversation.