I Could Never... It's Not Out of the Question
Oct 9, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Genevieve and Ishik tackle the complexities of dating monogamous individuals and the risks involved. They explore emotional check-ins in long-distance relationships and the value of using contracts for clear communication. The duo delves into navigating disclosures, revealing guiding principles for sharing sensitive information. They also emphasize the importance of self-reflection when faced with partner pressures and provide insights on rebuilding trust after breaches, making for a thought-provoking conversation on connection and boundaries.
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Old Date, New Sparks
- Genevieve unexpectedly reconnected with someone she dated a decade earlier and felt sparks this time.
- They had a playful, short friends-with-benefits connection that reminded her to be spontaneous.
Family Fight Over A Bed
- Ishik described a family trip that devolved into a violent public argument about beds and power.
- They emphasized the powerlessness of wanting to mend when the other party intends harm.
Assess Newcomers By Actions Not Labels
- Don't treat newness to non-monogamy as an automatic red flag; assess communication, curiosity, and behavior.
- Prefer partners who actively question mononormativity and handle rejection and conflict well.