Exploring why we are attracted to the wrong people, understanding self-esteem's impact on relationship choices, and learning a self-love technique to establish healthier standards.
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Attraction to unavailable individuals stems from a false sense of scarcity and skewed perception of value.
Self-esteem influences relationship choices, leading some to seek validation from those who mistreat them.
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Attraction to the Wrong Person
Often, we find ourselves attracted to people who may not notice us or treat us poorly, leading us to question why we are drawn to them. The allure of individuals who seem hard to get or mysterious can skew our perception of their value, creating a false sense of scarcity. This perspective can cloud our judgment and make us chase after those who may not be a good fit for us.
Self-Esteem and Love Relationships
Self-esteem plays a crucial role in the relationships we choose. Some individuals seek validation in pursuing those who may not reciprocate their feelings or respect them. The belief that only people who are 'out of our league' are worth pursuing can lead to accepting mistreatment. Practicing self-love involves setting boundaries based on how we would want our loved ones to be treated, emphasizing the importance of valuing ourselves in romantic connections.
Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people? It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want. In this episode, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening.
At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this...
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