The Feel Good Folk

Redefining Masculinity: What It Means to Be a Good Man | With Jon Alexander

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May 19, 2025
Jon Alexander, author of 'Citizens' and co-founder of the New Citizen Project, shares his journey from competitive sports to societal contribution. He addresses the evolving concept of masculinity, emphasizing the importance of personal agency and community over consumerism. Jon discusses how traditional narratives exacerbate isolation in men and promotes a shift towards collaborative masculinity. He underscores the power of storytelling in reshaping identities, advocating for a more inclusive and purposeful definition of what it means to be a man today.
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ANECDOTE

Jon's Rowing Comeback

  • Jon Alexander shared his experience of a 17-year gap from rowing after being cut from the under-23 squad.
  • He rediscovered rowing during a reunion regatta, highlighting personal shifts in identity.
INSIGHT

Three Stories of Self

  • Jon identifies three stories of self: subject, consumer, and citizen stories shaping societal roles.
  • The citizen story emphasizes collaboration and contribution as core human nature.
INSIGHT

Consumerism Affects Men Deeply

  • Modern consumerism is linked to loneliness, competition, and a fragmented sense of identity.
  • These issues resonate deeply with challenges faced by boys and men in society today.
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