

How to Change (But Not Overnight)
16 snips Aug 21, 2025
Feeling the pressure to transform but don’t know where to start? This discussion highlights the struggle of seeking change amidst life's chaos. It emphasizes the power of prudence and thoughtful decision-making over drastic overhauls. Slow change is celebrated, with personal stories and practical tips on establishing small habits for lasting growth. The journey toward becoming a better version of yourself is explored, encouraging listeners to embrace gradual transformation with achievable goals and a touch of grace.
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Cardinal Virtues As Lifelong Formation
- Cardinal virtues (prudence, justice, temperance, fortitude) frame becoming rather than fixed goodness.
- These habits shape who we become and support moral life when cultivated over time.
Prudence As Practical Wisdom
- Prudence is a practical wisdom that helps us choose the right good at the right time for the right reason.
- It develops through practice and guides incremental, sensible change rather than dramatic overhauls.
Louis: A Diamond Covered In Dust
- Father Greg Boyle's story of Louis shows transformation is possible with community and steady support.
- Louis moved from gangs to steady employment and Greg remembers him as a 'diamond covered in dust.'