The Libido Fairy Podcast

#105: Increase Sexual Satisfaction In Your Relationship Without Increasing The Amount You Have Sex

Sep 13, 2025
Explore how everyday gestures, like flirting and touches, can significantly enhance sexual satisfaction without increasing the amount of sex. Discover the concept of sexual currency and its power in fostering intimacy. Open communication is emphasized as a key element for igniting desire and strengthening connections in relationships. Dive into practical strategies that help couples elevate their intimacy game effortlessly!
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INSIGHT

Sexual Currency Defined

  • Sexual currency is the ongoing exchanges that mark someone as a sexual partner rather than a friend or family member.
  • These small interactions build erotic tension and connection between sex acts.
ANECDOTE

Early Relationship Flow Versus Long-Term Drift

  • Early relationships naturally flow with sexual currency through flirting, making out, and playful signals.
  • Over time chores and logistics push those exchanges down the priority list, reducing free-flowing sexual energy.
ADVICE

Keep Currency Flowing, Not Just For Initiation

  • Do exchange sexual currency frequently rather than only right before sex to avoid it becoming an initiation signal.
  • Use flirting, teasing, and affectionate touches to keep sexual energy present without pressuring for sex.
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