Raising Good Humans Ep 74: Big Little Feelings Toddler Experts Are Talking Toddlers
Dec 25, 2020
Kristin and Deena, the dynamic duo behind Big Little Feelings, share their expert insights on toddler parenting. They tackle tough topics like power struggles, hitting, and discipline, advocating for gentle guidance over punishment. The conversation also explores how to help toddlers articulate their emotions through books like 'The Color Monster.' They emphasize the importance of realistic expectations and self-care while navigating the challenges of motherhood. Plus, the duo offers practical strategies for discussing sensitive subjects, ensuring emotional growth in little ones.
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Shaming on Social Media
- Social media posts about parenting can be inadvertently shaming, even those about not shaming.
- This creates a dichotomy of perfect parents versus those who don't care, leaving many feeling unseen.
Big Little Feelings Origin
- Kristin, a parenting toddler expert, found existing online parenting advice unrealistic and unrelatable.
- This led her and Deena, a child therapist, to create Big Little Feelings, offering practical, research-backed tips and support for real moms.
Handling Hitting
- Address hitting by first validating the child's feelings (e.g., "You're feeling angry").
- Then, set a clear boundary (e.g., "It's not okay to hurt someone") and offer comfort.
