This week, Valeria is joined by the iconic Chriselle Lim, an OG fashion and lifestyle influencer, entrepreneur, and content creator. The shock of Chriselle’s divorce came after years of her sharing her picturesque seeming family & relationship online - her journey is a true testament to the fact that women continue to suffer in silence in toxic relationships. What you see on the outside is so different from what’s happening inside a marriage. Chriselle is blazing the trail for changing that narrative, breaking down the stigma around divorce and failed relationships, and giving hope to those who are struggling on their own. Valeria and her sit down and chat all about Chriselle’s self-discovery journey throughout and after her divorce, the internal shame that comes with learning to love again, and how they are planning to raise resilient children through positive feminine and masculine role models. 

You can find Chriselle on: 

https://www.instagram.com/chrisellelim/

https://www.tiktok.com/@chrisellelim

https://www.youtube.com/user/chrisellelim

https://www.instagram.com/phlur/?hl=en 

Valeria is on:

https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/ 

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWkDFq1pO7YNzifE3A4UsMA 

https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky 

Not Alone Podcast

What We Talked About:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:42 Self-discovery after divorce
• 03:47 Feeling alone in a marriage
• 06:45 The reality of young marriage
• 10:28 Prenups and partnership
• 13:25 Embracing change in relationships
• 16:42 Redefining masculinity and femininity
• 20:25 Rediscovering joy and feminine energy after divorce
• 25:58 Present parenting
• 29:34 Building a solid co-parenting relationship
• 37:18 Why Chriselle shared her divorce journey
• 40:48 Letting go of past self
• 44:40 Finding strength in vulnerability
• 48:35 Celebrating life after divorce
• 50:41 Setting boundaries in the world of social media
• 1:00:57 Overcoming relationship trauma and trusting again
• 1:03:34 “You don’t need marriage…”
• 1:12:07 Who is Chriselle now?

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