Modern Wisdom #310 - Adam Lane Smith - 15 Harsh Psychology Truths
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Apr 19, 2021 
Adam Lane Smith, a psychotherapist and author specializing in trauma and attachment theory, shares profound insights on human behavior. He explains why women's understanding of male sexuality can lead to discomfort, and argues that parenting plays a crucial role in shaping emotional well-being. Delving into male depression, he suggests that purpose is more vital than medication. Additionally, Adam discusses the complexities of intimacy and the impact of sexual trauma, emphasizing the need for emotional connections in relationships and the importance of personal growth.
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Sex Drive Differences
- The male sex drive operates on external stimulation, leading to arousal and a need for release.
- The female sex drive is linked to emotional intimacy and attachment, prioritizing partner selection for long-term security.
Women's Power Dynamic
- Women are initially disgusted by the mechanics of the male sex drive but realize the power it gives them.
- This power comes from understanding how easily men can be aroused, giving women control over male attention and validation.
Divorce and Attachment
- 70% of divorces are initiated by women, often due to men's attachment issues.
- Women seek partners who can connect emotionally with them and their children, while men with attachment issues struggle with this.
