Psychology Unplugged Theory of Mind
Oct 19, 2025
Dive into the intriguing world of theory of mind, where understanding others’ inner worlds is key to relationships. Discover how trauma impacts our ability to connect and how childhood experiences shape our perspective-taking. Explore the neural systems behind this cognitive skill, the difference between theory of mind, empathy, and mentalization, and hear about the long-term effects of attachment trauma. Unravel the balance between recognizing others as distinct subjects and the spiritual implications of granting them reality.
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Other Minds Are Separate Realities
- Theory of mind is the capacity to hold that another person has a separate inner world and tolerate not knowing it.
- This tolerance of uncertainty is central to mature relationships and mental flexibility.
The Brain Network Behind Perspective
- Theory of mind relies on a network: medial prefrontal cortex, temporoparietal junction, superior temporal sulcus, and mirror neurons.
- If the limbic system senses danger, this network shuts off and otherness becomes inaccessible.
Early Caregiving Shapes Perspective Taking
- Theory of mind foundations form between ages three and eight and refine after eight.
- Caregiver dysregulation teaches children that other minds are volatile and unsafe, undermining curiosity.