The Daily Dad

You Can't Be Remote

Jun 28, 2021

02:47

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Exploring the evolution of parenting from aristocratic British families to modern times. Emphasizing the importance of being present with your kids. Discussing the pitfalls of emotional distance in parenting.

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Parents must be present with their kids to avoid emotional disconnection.

Parental self-absorption can lead to unintended consequences in child rearing, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing children's emotional well-being.

Deep dives

The Consequences of Parental Self-Absorption

Parents' historical practices of neglecting children's emotional needs, as seen in aristocratic British parenting, continue in modern times. Lady Glenn Connor's book, 'Lady in Waiting', reveals her realization of her children's perception of her as remote figures. This lack of awareness of the impact of parental decisions on children is highlighted, emphasizing the importance of considering the emotional well-being of children in parenting.

The Impact of Being Remote in Parenting

3min

“Anyone who has read about aristocratic British parenting can’t help but be appalled. Children were not only not seen, but not heard from—for years. They were shipped off to schools. They were expected to carry incredible burdens and deliver on the aspirations of their family, with little to no concern whether their personal aspirations were aligned in the slightest.”

Ryan explains why you must be present with you kids.

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