E056 - Modern Relationship Advice NO ONE Talks About | Dr Sara Al Mandani
Aug 18, 2024
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Dr. Sara Al Mandani, a trailblazing Emirati businesswoman who launched her entrepreneurial journey at 15, dives deep into the complexities of modern relationships and self-discovery. She discusses overcoming limiting beliefs and the impact of spirituality on personal growth. Sara shares insights on the balance between masculine and feminine energies, the importance of self-love, and healing from toxic relationships. Her experiences challenge traditional views while promoting emotional expression and authenticity in both business and life.
Dr. Sara Al Mandani emphasizes that removing limiting beliefs is crucial for achieving a higher quality of life and personal growth.
The podcast challenges stereotypes about Emirati women, highlighting their empowerment and crucial roles in business and society.
Sara discusses her entrepreneurial journey, viewing failures as vital learning experiences that contributed to her current success in tech investments.
The importance of emotional openness and communication in modern relationships is underscored, promoting mutual respect between masculine and feminine energies.
Deep dives
The Power of Belief and Emotion
The discussion emphasizes the profound impact of belief systems on individuals. The speaker asserts that anything is possible once limiting beliefs are removed, highlighting the powerful nature of the human soul and its inherent voice. Additionally, the importance of emotional awareness in men is addressed, with the speaker expressing admiration for men who are in touch with their emotions, seeing this as a true form of masculinity. This open emotional expression is deemed essential for personal growth and strength.
Cultural Misconceptions and Emirati Identity
The speaker highlights a common misunderstanding of Emirati culture, particularly regarding the perception of Emirati women as oppressed. She points out that these beliefs are often based on outdated cultural practices rather than the actual tenets of Islam, which historically revered women as business leaders. Her own experiences and those of her family illustrate a more progressive and varied Emirati identity. This discussion calls for a reevaluation of cultural stereotypes and encourages an open-minded understanding of contemporary Emirati life.
The Journey of Entrepreneurship
The entrepreneur's journey began at a young age, with her first business venture at just fifteen. Over the years, she faced numerous failures across various industries, which she views as invaluable learning experiences that refined her approach to business. With a focus on utilizing time effectively, she emphasizes that failure is simply a stepping stone to success and self-discovery. Her current ventures include tech and public company investments, revealing a strong passion for innovative industries.
Parenting and Values for the Next Generation
As a mother, the speaker is dedicated to instilling values of freedom, self-love, and financial literacy in her son. She fosters an environment where he understands the importance of healing and being in touch with his emotions. Her parenting approach is mindful; she respects his autonomy while providing guidance, ensuring he grows into a confident and self-aware individual. This aimed upbringing contrasts sharply with traditional parenting styles that may impose societal conformities.
The Healing Journey and Spirituality
The speaker shares her belief that true healing and spirituality often emerge during difficult times. Her own spiritual journey began when facing personal challenges, prompting profound reflections on life and purpose. She advocates for seeking healing through various means, including quantum healing, and emphasizes the importance of addressing childhood trauma to unlock one's potential. This holistic understanding of spirituality as a journey toward self-awareness demonstrates the interconnectedness of emotional and psychological well-being.
The Complexities of Reality Television
Participating in reality television presents unique challenges, particularly concerning self-representation and authenticity. The speaker recognizes the platform's potential for reaching a vast audience while also grappling with the pressure of portraying her values amid drama. By discussing spirituality and personal growth within a reality TV format, she aims to provide a counter-narrative to the typical sensationalism associated with such shows. This earnest intent highlights the complexities of navigating personal integrity amid widespread public scrutiny.
Navigating Relationships and Gender Dynamics
The conversation delves into the dynamics of modern relationships, especially concerning issues of masculinity and femininity. The speaker emphasizes the importance of emotional openness and communication for both partners, advocating for a balance between masculine strength and feminine intuition. She critiques the societal pressures and expectations placed on gender roles, urging men to embrace their emotional sides without fear. Ultimately, she believes in fostering mutual respect and understanding to build healthier relationships.
Joining me today for a deep dive into relationships, energy and spirituality is Dr. Sara Al Mandani, a businesswoman and prominent Emirati figure. Al Madani began her journey to entrepreneurship at the young age of 15 and is now running over 9 companies across the spectrum of commerce, tech, marketing and more. A core driving force behind the monumental success has been her curiosity in spirituality. Sara has been able to recondition herself for a higher quality of life absent of limiting beliefs.
0:00 Introduction 1:43 Emirati restrictions with media appearances & the UAE’s infrastructure 4:22 Sara’s upbringing in Ajman & the reality / benefits of life as an Emirati 8:32 University & A full on company with 3 employees at 15: the beginnings of Sara’s entrepreneurial journey 12:12 Most common misconceptions surrounding middle eastern women 14:57 Why Sara transitioned from 20 years in fashion to investing all funds in tech business 18:02 “influencership” a distasteful title that has been ruined by wannabees 19:33 Sara’s PhD in business & women empowerment & previous experience in the government council 24:24 More women pursuing business & entrepreneurship 29:01 Masculine & feminine energy 32:33 Spiritual journeys: awakening, consciousness & the meaning of life 36:02 “We’re all being tested”: life’s 38:42 Life after death & healing 44:02 Narcissism & the ego debate 49:33 “people are existing, not living”: how to heal yourself from trauma 55:02 Relationships: the sweetest way to love someone *healing* 1:00:11 Opening up & sharing emotions with your partner (communication) 1:03:22 The biggest lessons learnt from past relationships 1:11:20 Karma 1:14:34 Motivation for young men 1:16:12 Vibrations & heartbreak 1:18:12 “Love is the language of god” 1:24:02 Current business ventures & raising a son 1:27:45 Reality tv experience & future plans
