Spot These 3 Signs He'll Use To Seduce, Manipulate & Control You | Andrew Bustamante PT 1

Jan 15, 2025

Andrew Bustamante, a former CIA spy and expert in influence tactics, joins to explore the intricacies of seduction and manipulation. He reveals how emotional and hormonal triggers can sway attraction and connection. Listeners learn to recognize red flags and protect themselves from manipulative tactics. Bustamante discusses the psychological strategies used by narcissists and empowers individuals with tools to build authentic relationships, highlighting the fine line between genuine interest and manipulation.

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Intro

00:00 • 5min

The Art of Emotional Influence

04:31 • 13min

Understanding Attraction and Interaction

17:40 • 11min

The Dynamics of Attraction

28:43 • 6min

Action and Strategy: From Business to Intelligence

34:31 • 7min

Understanding Power Dynamics in Manipulative Relationships

41:49 • 4min

Understanding Emotional Manipulation and Persuasion

46:06 • 4min

Have you ever found yourself wrapped up in a relationship, only to wonder later if you were being manipulated?

Well, today we're diving deep into the world of seduction, manipulation, and the often overlooked power dynamics at play with the help of CIA veteran Andrew Bustamante, who knows all too well how these tactics are used both in espionage and everyday life.

In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, we’re pulling back the curtain on how the human brain can be influenced by hormones and emotional connections to uncover how to spot those red flags before you get too entangled.

Andrew is here to break down the three-step process of human sexuality, explain how predators like narcissists find their targets, and give us the tools to protect ourselves from falling into manipulative traps.

Trust me homie, with Andrew’s insights, you’ll gain a better understanding of the power dynamics at play and how to navigate them with confidence and clarity!!

In this episode, we go DEEP into:

- How YOU can identify and outsmart manipulators before they even have a chance to play their games

- The surprising role hormones play in attraction and why understanding them can give you a serious edge in relationships

- How to build authentic connections without falling prey to emotional persuasion

- The real difference between seduction and genuine romantic interest

- And soooo much more!!

By the end of this episode, you’ll have a toolkit to recognize and deflect manipulation, understand the role of hormones in emotional and sexual engagement, and maintain control in your relationships.

So guys, no more second-guessing or blaming yourselves when things feel off. This episode will arm you with the knowledge to stand strong against manipulation and build relationships that genuinely respect your worth and boundaries!!

So let’s dive right in, guys!! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and welcome to Women of Impact.

SHOWNOTES

00:00 Dopamine and noradrenaline make things exciting.

08:52 Taylor Swift shirt makes me seem harmless.

15:51 Can't keep up with Taylor Swift convo.

18:59 She hits the gym hard daily, for sure!

25:50 Attraction and connection often lead to affairs.

27:53 Energy level ups with more intense activity.

33:53 Seduction in spy work: Building trust, not sex.

37:59 Women worry about being manipulated or seduced.

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