The Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy 126. Stage 2 Series: Enactments-Step 5
Sep 30, 2025
Delve into the nuances of Stage Two enactments in emotionally focused therapy. Discover why these enactments can feel awkward and how they aim to restructure relationships. Learn about key targets like revealing negative self-views and exploring deep primary emotions. The hosts emphasize the importance of risky revelations for healing cycles of protection and the need for partner witnessing. Practical tips abound, including timing enactments and managing emotional depth for effective connection. This insightful discussion equips therapists with strategies to foster secure emotional bonds.
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Stage Two Restructures The Relationship
- Stage Two enactments restructure the relationship by demonstrating a partner as a secure base.
- This creates a cultural change in how partners relate, not just a momentary dip in vulnerability.
Target Negative Self-Views Directly
- Target enactments at the client's negative view of self and associated attachment fears.
- Aim for explicit, risky self-revelations (e.g., "I believe I'm unlovable") during the enactment.
Deeper Primary Emotions Mark Stage Two
- Deeper primary emotions, trauma memories, and younger-child attachment material often surface in Stage Two.
- These deeper pockets signal genuine Stage Two territory beyond repeated Stage One fears.