Massive Meltdowns: 5 Steps To Calm Kids Who Blame & Feel Shame #479
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May 14, 2025
Navigating emotional meltdowns can be challenging for parents. Discover the reasons behind intense outbursts and how to manage your child's feelings of shame. Learn to validate emotions instead of dismissing them. The discussion emphasizes the importance of active engagement to de-escalate confrontations. Additionally, empowering children through fun activities and open communication can make a world of difference. With actionable steps, parents can foster emotional regulation and resilience in their little ones.
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volunteer_activism ADVICE
Work With Child's Nature
Proactively observe your child's calming activities and work with their nature to reduce meltdowns.
Control your own triggers before responding to your child's behavior to avoid escalation.
volunteer_activism ADVICE
Control Your Own Triggers
Slow your own inner world down before reacting to your child's outburst.
Respond calmly instead of reacting impulsively to defuse tense situations.
insights INSIGHT
Shame Fuels Meltdowns
Shame and embarrassment fuel children's explosive meltdowns when punished.
Kids lash out to avoid feeling isolated as the only one losing control in the family.
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