

Ghosting, breadcrumbing, one-night stands: are we done with dating apps?
19 snips Aug 15, 2025
Kitty Drake, a Guardian writer known for her matchmaking in the blind date column and insightful sex life interviews, shares her expertise on the evolving dating landscape. A million people in the UK left dating apps last year, highlighting a shift towards traditional and in-person connections. She discusses the emotional toll of dating fatigue and the manipulative nature of apps that exploit user hopes. The conversation emphasizes the need for authenticity over disposability in modern relationships, paving the way for a return to genuine human connections.
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Street Meet-Cute After App Fatigue
- Eleanor describes being asked out in the street after swimming and giving her number on a whim.
- The man said apps weren't working for him, so he’d started approaching people in person instead.
Mass App Exodus And Gen Z Burnout
- About 1.4 million people in the UK left dating apps in the last year, and almost 80% of Gen Z report burnout.
- This signals a large-scale shift in user engagement and sentiment toward online dating.
Matchmaker's Own Return To Apps
- Kitty Drake describes returning to apps after a long-term relationship ended and reading many emails from people saying they can't cope with apps.
- She admits the inbox narrative influenced her choice to stay in her relationship longer.