Why Managers Play Favorites – and How They Can Change
Jun 18, 2024
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Exploring the effects of favoritism in the workplace, understanding the reasons behind managers playing favorites, and strategies for both managers and employees to address and prevent favoritism. Discusses the impact of favoritism on team dynamics and performance, with tips on improving relationships and fostering a fair work environment.
Managers' favoritism leads to unequal opportunities and eroded trust among team members.
Leaders create in-groups based on similarity, impacting interactions and opportunities within the team.
Deep dives
The Negative Impact of Favoritism in the Workplace
Favoritism in the workplace can have detrimental effects on team morale and productivity. Studies show that a significant percentage of employees witness favoritism, with executives even admitting to having favorite candidates for promotions. Favored individuals receive preferential treatment based on relationships rather than merit, leading to unequal opportunities for growth and advancement. This behavior can lead to demotivation, hostility, decreased morale, and eroded trust among team members, ultimately impacting organizational performance negatively.
Understanding In-Groups and Out-Groups in Leadership Dynamics
Leaders tend to form in-groups and out-groups within their teams based on similarities in demographics, personality traits, and interests. These relationships influence managers' perceptions and interactions with team members, with favoritism often directed towards those in the in-group. Similarity and perceived competence are key criteria in determining who receives more attention and challenging assignments. This tendency results in a self-fulfilling prophecy where favored individuals excel while those in the out-group may experience neglect and reduced opportunities for growth.
Mitigating Favoritism through Self-Awareness and Relationship Management
Managers are encouraged to regularly self-audit their relationships with team members to identify potential favoritism patterns. By asking questions related to acknowledging competence, fostering growth, and providing equal opportunities, they can monitor and address any biases. Engaging in open conversations with direct reports, acknowledging past shortcomings, and setting clear expectations through contracting discussions can help rectify imbalances and foster better relationships. Employees who observe favoritism can seek feedback actively, communicate openly, and focus on improving their visibility to mitigate the effects of biases.
While most good bosses try to be fair and balanced with their direct reports, it's only human to prefer the company and work styles of some team members over others, and employees are keenly aware of those preferences. They see favorites and non-favorites, ingroups and outgroups -- and when those divisions fester, they can destroy team culture and performance. Ginka Toegel, professor at IMD Business School, explains why even well-intentioned managers succumb to favoritism, how workers on both sides are affected, and what we can do to both avoid and rectify the problem. Toegel is the coauthor of the HBR article "Stop Playing Favorites."
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