The Psychology of your 20s 33. Social attraction, being ‘cool’ and in-groups
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Jun 7, 2022 Explore the meaning of 'cool' and why it holds such significance in social circles. Discover the paradox of conformity, where bending norms can sometimes enhance acceptance among specific groups. Delve into the evolving nature of social identity affected by social media and globalization. The importance of authenticity shines through as a key to social attraction. Join a discussion on the human need for connection and belonging while navigating the challenges of fitting in.
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Social Acceptance in Your 20s
- Social acceptance and belonging are crucial in our 20s as we build our identities.
- This leads to pressure around social status and fitting in.
Comparative Status
- Our sense of self-worth is often tied to our perceived position in social hierarchies.
- We compare ourselves to others, seeking higher status and acceptance within these groups.
Rejection and Belonging
- Rejection triggers emotional and sometimes physical pain due to our deep-seated need for belonging.
- This has significant implications for our behavior and psychological well-being.