The Art of Manliness #359: Tribe of Mentors: Short Life Advice from the Best of the Best
Joining the discussion is Tim Ferriss, a renowned author and the host of his own podcast, celebrated for his expertise in self-improvement and entrepreneurship. Tim shares gems from his book, gathering life advice from top achievers. Discover tips on how to confidently say no without guilt, the must-read books that successful people gift, and strategies to overcome overwhelm when life gets tough. His insights into maintaining boundaries and personal quirks of successful figures make for an engaging and enlightening conversation.
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Master Saying No Tactfully
- Cultivate selective ignorance and say no firmly to protect your time.
- Use clear and polite refusals, making "no" a policy when overwhelmed.
Avoid Low-Commitment Yeses
- Avoid committing to things far in advance by imagining if the event was this Tuesday.
- Reject invitations that score below eight out of ten to prevent time waste.
Books Most Gifted by Winners
- Ask what books successful people gift most to find broadly applicable wisdom.
- The most gifted books reveal practical, influential ideas shared repeatedly with others.
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Intro
00:00 • 4min
Wisdom from the Tribe
03:41 • 21min
Influential Literature and Personal Growth
24:29 • 10min
Overcoming Overwhelm through Writing and Movement
34:51 • 5min
Embracing the Unusual: Quirks and Superstitions
39:22 • 3min
Exploring Insights from 'Tribe of Mentors'
42:21 • 3min
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Letters from a Stoic
Seneca
Seneca's "Letters from a Stoic" comprises a collection of personal letters offering practical advice on living a virtuous life according to Stoic principles.
Written to Lucilius, a friend and student, the letters cover a wide range of topics, including dealing with adversity, managing emotions, and finding inner peace.
Seneca's writing style is engaging and relatable, making complex philosophical concepts accessible to a wider audience.
The letters offer timeless wisdom on self-improvement and ethical living.
They remain a valuable resource for anyone seeking guidance on navigating life's challenges.
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The five love languages
singles edition
Gary Chapman
In this book, Dr. Gary Chapman outlines five general ways that romantic partners express and experience love, which he calls 'love languages'.
By learning these languages, individuals can discover their unique love languages and those of their loved ones, leading to deeper and richer levels of intimacy.
The book includes practical steps and a love language assessment to help strengthen relationships.
It emphasizes that people tend to give love in the way they prefer to receive it, and understanding these differences can improve communication and relationship satisfaction.
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Zorba the Greek
Nikos Kazantzakis
The novel, originally titled 'Víos kai Politeía tou Aléxē Zorbá' (Life and Times of Alexis Zorbas), tells the story of a young Greek intellectual who, feeling stifled by his bookish life, hires the charismatic and experienced Alexis Zorba to manage a lignite mine in Crete.
The narrative revolves around the conversations and interactions between Zorba and the young 'boss', highlighting their vastly different approaches to life.
Zorba, with his passionate and practical worldview, challenges the boss's more passive and aesthetically inclined nature.
The book delves into themes such as the meaning of life, religion, women, and the human condition, set against the backdrop of rural Cretan life and the characters' personal struggles and adventures.
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Atlas Shrugged
Ayn Rand
Published in 1957, 'Atlas Shrugged' is Ayn Rand's magnum opus and her longest novel.
The story is set in a dystopian United States where increasingly burdensome laws and regulations strangle innovation and productivity.
The plot follows Dagny Taggart, a railroad executive, and Hank Rearden, a steel magnate, as they struggle against 'looters' who exploit their work.
A mysterious figure named John Galt leads a strike of productive individuals, persuading them to abandon their companies and disappear.
The novel culminates with Galt's three-hour radio speech explaining his philosophy of Objectivism, which emphasizes rational self-interest, individual rights, and the importance of the human mind.
The book explores themes of capitalism, property rights, and the failures of governmental coercion, presenting a provocative vision of a society in collapse and the potential for a new capitalist society based on Galt's principles.
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Siddhartha
Herman Hesse
Herman Hesse's "Siddhartha" is a philosophical novel that follows the spiritual journey of a young man named Siddhartha Gautama.
The story explores themes of self-discovery, enlightenment, and the search for meaning beyond material possessions.
Siddhartha's experiences with various aspects of life, including sensuality, asceticism, and worldly pursuits, lead him to a deeper understanding of himself and the universe.
The novel's evocative prose and profound insights into the human condition have resonated with readers for generations.
Hesse's exploration of spiritual awakening and the interconnectedness of all things makes "Siddhartha" a timeless classic.
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Poor Charlie's Almanack
The Essential Wit and Wisdom of Charles T. Munger
Charles T. Munger
Peter D. Kaufman
Originally published in 2005, Poor Charlie's Almanack is a collection of eleven talks delivered by Charles T. Munger between 1986 and 2007.
Edited by Peter D. Kaufman, this book draws on Munger's extensive knowledge across various fields to provide a framework for rational and rigorous approaches to life, learning, and decision-making.
It is renowned for its sharp wit and rhetorical flair, making it an essential read for investors, entrepreneurs, and anyone seeking to enhance their wisdom and critical thinking skills.
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Man's Search for Meaning
Viktor Frankl
The book is divided into two parts.
The first part recounts Frankl's harrowing experiences as a prisoner in Nazi concentration camps, including Auschwitz, between 1942 and 1945.
He describes the inhumane conditions and the psychological and emotional struggles of the prisoners.
The second part introduces Frankl's theory of logotherapy, which posits that the primary human drive is the search for meaning, rather than pleasure.
Frankl argues that meaning can be found through three main avenues: work (doing something significant), love (caring for another), and suffering (finding meaning in one's own suffering).
The book emphasizes the importance of finding purpose and meaning in life, even in the most adverse conditions, as a key factor in survival and personal growth.
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TRIBE OF MENTORS
Tim Ferriss
In 'Tribe of Mentors', Tim Ferriss collects and shares deep, meaningful, and life-changing tips and hacks from a diverse group of mentors.
These mentors include iconic entrepreneurs, elite athletes, artists, and billionaire investors.
The book is structured around a set of 11 questions that Ferriss asked these mentors, covering topics such as morning routines, overcoming failure, achieving work-life balance, and reassessing priorities.
It offers a rich tapestry of experiences and viewpoints, ensuring there is something valuable for readers from all walks of life.
Do you sometimes wish you had a cabinet of counselors you could go to for advice and insight on how to make life better and easier for yourself?
Well, my guest today created his own board of mighty mentors — a metaphorical round table of some of the most successful people in the world — and asked them all the same 11 questions on how to live a more fulfilling and productive life. And he wrote a book to share all the insights he learned with others.
His name is Tim Ferriss, and he's an author and the host of the Tim Ferriss Podcast. In his latest book, "Tribe of Mentors: Short Life Advice From the Best in the World," Tim shares the answers he got to the 11 questions he posed to a diverse range of successful people like Steven Pressfield, Jocko Willink, Bear Grylls, and Greg Norman, among many others. In today’s episode, Tim shares insights from the people he interviewed on how to say no without feeling guilty or looking like a jerk, the books successful people frequently gift others, and what to do when you’re feeling overwhelmed, distracted, and just generally down.
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