Small Things Often Why Core Needs Aren't Negotiable
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May 10, 2021 Explore the vital concept of core needs in relationships and why they can't be overlooked. Discover the difference between negotiable issues and non-negotiable needs. Learn how to identify what each partner requires to feel loved and secure. Hear an example of conflicting needs between connection and independence. Get practical steps for acknowledging needs, setting boundaries, and checking in compassionately. The discussion emphasizes that addressing these core needs fosters trust, security, and deeper connections.
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Core Needs Determine Relationship Viability
- Core needs in a relationship are non-negotiable and determine whether it can thrive.
- If a partner refuses to meet core needs, the relationship cannot flourish.
Check-In Expectation Clash
- Example: one partner expects regular check-ins while the other resists emotional check-ins.
- The mismatch rattles the independent partner and challenges both people's needs.
Communicate Needs With Boundaries
- Communicate understanding of your partner's need and why it matters to them.
- State your own boundaries, what you will provide, and check back to confirm mutual understanding.