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Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

3551: Show Success Before Asking for Help AND A Warning to Anyone Receiving Advice by Derek Sivers

Apr 4, 2025
Success is about showing results, not just potential. Derek Sivers explains how demonstrating your momentum can attract better opportunities, especially in creative fields. He warns against following advice blindly, as it often reflects the giver's biases. Instead, he encourages gathering diverse insights while remaining true to your own judgment. This approach helps make informed decisions and opens doors to new possibilities.
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Quick takeaways

  • Establishing a track record of success is essential before seeking support, as demonstrated by disparities in opportunities within the music industry.
  • Advice often reflects personal biases; therefore, it's crucial to gather multiple perspectives and trust your own judgment when making decisions.

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The Importance of Demonstrating Success

Success often demands that individuals first establish a track record before seeking external support or resources. In the music industry, for instance, a songwriter's cash advance can vary dramatically based on their previous achievements rather than their raw talent alone. One example highlights a skilled songwriter receiving a modest advance due to a lack of prior success, while another, with connections to a famous band despite inferior songwriting, secured a considerable amount. This disparity emphasizes the necessity of showcasing momentum and potential success to gain negotiating power when approaching industry professionals.

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