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Release yourself from the male gaze: How to have more orgasms!

Jul 25, 2025
Emily Ratajkowski, a model and author of 'My Body', dives into breaking free from the male gaze to embrace personal sexuality. She discusses the societal pressures that often dictate women's desires, while Florence Bark, a sex educator, offers insights on understanding female anatomy for greater pleasure. They tackle the importance of self-empowerment, the complexity of female sexuality, and how to reclaim intimate experiences. Together, they encourage women to prioritize their own desires and redefine pleasure on their own terms.
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ANECDOTE

Crystal Hefner's Playboy Experience

  • Crystal Hefner shares her experience of growing up thinking being sexy was the path to power and happiness.
  • She describes how living in the Playboy mansion involved strict rules, impacting her sense of safety and intimacy.
INSIGHT

Women Talking Frees Sexuality

  • Emily Ratajkowski explains that women talking openly about sex leads to better sex and protection.
  • She highlights the bleak truth of women rarely orgasming during initial encounters and the need to break taboo.
INSIGHT

Complexity of Female Sexuality

  • Emily Ratajkowski reflects on complexities of expressing female sexuality amid societal shaming and male gaze.
  • She emphasizes feminism should allow women freedom to express and enjoy their sexuality without judgment.
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