I Could Never... Ask And You Shall Receive
May 22, 2025
In a lively Q&A, the hosts tackle listener queries about the quirks of non-monogamous dating. They reflect on the challenges of discussing relationship dynamics with unsupportive friends and emphasize the need for clear communication. The significance of finding a supportive therapist for non-monogamous relationships is explored, alongside the emotional intricacies of navigating past traumas. They also discuss the balance between independence and intimacy, offering insights on navigating personal desires within the context of polyamory.
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Protect Yourself From Unsupportive Friends
- Avoid sharing intimate relationship details with unsupportive friends to protect yourself from gossip and judgment.
- Confront friends who are disrespectful and set boundaries to maintain your emotional safety.
Overcome Guilt About Dating
- Trust your partner's words when they support your exploration, but question guilt rooted in societal judgments.
- Challenge internalized shame by identifying whose voice you hear when feeling guilty about dating outside your relationship.
Manage Feelings About Partner's Others
- You can't control who your partner dates, so focus on managing your reactions to annoying people.
- Explore your personal triggers when feeling agitated to find peace and avoid unnecessary distress.