

The Tea On Gossip With Kelsey McKinney
May 26, 2025
In this enlightening chat, Kelsey McKinney, creator of the Normal Gossip podcast and author of 'You Didn't Hear It From Me, Mostly True Notes on Gossip,' dives into the human fascination with gossip. She explores why gossip is a learned behavior that shapes our communication and social dynamics. McKinney discusses its dual nature, revealing how it can connect people or cause harm, especially in contexts like workplaces and communities. Through personal anecdotes and cultural insights, she unravels the complexities of gossip in today's digital age.
AI Snips
Chapters
Books
Transcript
Episode notes
Gossip Is an Evolved Behavior
- Gossip is a learned behavior linked to human social evolution.
- It developed as a tool for information sharing and group coordination.
Gossip's Roots and Stigma
- Gossip originated from "god sib," meaning a close friend present at births.
- Its negative stigma derives partly from sexist views on women's communication.
Personal Story: Gossip in Church
- Kelsey McKinney grew up in an evangelical church where gossip was considered a sin.
- Her curiosity and love for storytelling fueled her passion for gossip despite restrictions.