Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 1
Apr 26, 2024
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Join Matthew Hussey, a renowned YouTube personality, author, and public speaker, as he shares insights on taking charge of your love life, reflecting on instincts, and valuing yourself in relationships. Explore emotional growth, self-love, and leadership dynamics in romantic relationships with practical advice from Matthew. Stay tuned for more on exploring the playful side of sex in the upcoming episode.
Establish standards and boundaries to lead by example in relationships.
Self-worth comes from self-nurturing and setting standards reflecting self-care.
Achieve closure by addressing personal standards and patterns transparently.
Deep dives
Leadership in Love Life
Leadership is rarely discussed in romantic contexts compared to business or personal development. Establishing standards and boundaries is essential in fostering healthy relationships to lead by example in modeling the behavior you want to see.
Creating Self-Worth
Self-worth isn't dependent on feeling special or having external validations. It stems from taking responsibility for nurturing and valuing oneself, treating oneself with compassion, and setting standards that reflect self-care and self-respect.
Understanding Closure
Achieving closure in relationships often requires self-initiated steps rather than waiting for external validations. It involves shining a light on dynamics that don't align with personal standards and addressing them transparently to prevent toxic patterns from persisting.
Challenging Instincts
Reconsidering impulses and instincts learned for survival in a different context can lead to more aligned decision-making. Overcoming ingrained behaviors that don't serve personal growth by exploring alternative responses and modeling desired interactions.
Embracing Imperfections
Embracing imperfections and understanding that self-acceptance doesn't require perfection is crucial for fostering compassionate relationships. Approaching intimacy without judgment allows for authentic connection and playful exploration.
Listen in on my conversation with my friend Matthew Hussey. You may know him as the inspirational YouTube personality, author, and public speaker who has revolutionized the world of dating advice with his amazing methods. We chat about emotional journeys, what Matthew has learned in his experience as a relationship coach, and ways to take charge of your love life. If you've been in a dating slump, this is the episode for you.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to take charge of your love life
Why reflecting on your instincts is a game changer