Plain English with Derek Thompson What’s So Great About Marriage?
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Sep 19, 2023 
Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz, leading researchers from the Harvard Study of Adult Development, dive into the surprising connection between marriage and happiness. They discuss how marriage often predicts well-being, while also probing the complexities of causation. The duo highlights the impact of financial stability and social connections on happiness. They further explore the paradox of choice, the importance of commitment, and ways to nurture relationships amidst parenting challenges. Their insights challenge common notions about what truly leads to a fulfilling life.
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Declining Happiness and Marriage
- American happiness has declined over the last 50 years, significantly dropping after 2000.
- Marriage is the strongest predictor of happiness, even outweighing factors like education and race.
Challenges of Happiness Research
- The GSS survey uses a three-point happiness scale ("very happy," "pretty happy," "not too happy"), which can oversimplify responses.
- Definitions and cultural understanding of happiness have shifted over time, affecting data interpretation.
Active Ingredients of Marriage
- Marriage offers emotional intimacy and practical support, contributing to well-being.
- A spouse provides a sense of security and helps with daily tasks.
