A Slight Change of Plans The Story of a Smile
Nov 11, 2024
Join Sarah Ruhl, a celebrated writer known for her acclaimed plays, as she candidly shares her journey with Bell's palsy following childbirth. She discusses the emotional turmoil of losing her ability to smile, reflecting on how it reshaped her identity and connections with loved ones. Sarah explores the intersection of self-image and health, emphasizing the importance of humor, connection, and storytelling in her healing process. Through poignant anecdotes, she highlights the resilience found in embracing one’s true self amid adversity.
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Traumatic Facial Paralysis Experience
- Sarah Ruhl experienced traumatic facial paralysis shortly after giving birth, seeing herself as a different person in the mirror.
- Her neurologist initially suspected a stroke, intensifying her fear and emotional distress.
Daughter's Acceptance of Paralysis
- Despite her condition, Sarah's daughter wonderfully accepted her changed appearance and empathized with her efforts to smile.
- Her daughter said, "I see you're trying, mama," showing unconditional love in reverse.
Face as Window to the Soul
- The face is central to social expression and connection, so losing facial muscles felt like losing part of soul-level communication.
- This loss can be terrifying, deeply affecting identity and relational interactions.
