Pastor Michael Todd, lead pastor of Transformation Church, shares insights from his popular book on relationships. He emphasizes the importance of progression over perfection in love and intimacy. The discussion covers the significance of trust, vulnerability, and open communication in building strong partnerships. Michael also highlights how addressing past traumas and practicing self-growth can enhance emotional wellness and deepen connections. Listeners are encouraged to embrace authenticity and generosity to foster fulfilling relationships.
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Michael Todd's Past Relationships
Michael Todd admits to a past filled with unhealthy relationship habits, influenced by skewed perceptions of male success.
He pursued multiple partners and prioritized superficial connections over genuine intimacy.
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Discipline Over Desire
Discipline yourself to resist fleeting desires that compromise long-term relationship goals.
Prioritize your end goal and make choices aligned with that vision, not just momentary feelings.
insights INSIGHT
Isolation in Relationships
Isolation breeds deception, unhealthy coping mechanisms, and ultimately, addiction.
Open communication in relationships prevents isolation and fosters unity.
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The 'Relationship Goals Challenge' by Michael Todd is designed to help couples enhance their relationships over a 30-day period. It emphasizes daily Scripture, intentional questions, and practical challenges to foster deeper communication, healing, and spiritual alignment. The book is structured around three key themes: Purpose, Healing, and Oneness, providing actionable steps for couples to strengthen their bond and align with God's goals for their lives.
Relationship Goals
Michael Todd
In 'Relationship Goals,' Pastor Michael Todd provides a candid and inspiring guide to navigating dating, marriage, and sex. The book is based on his viral sermon series and offers real-life ideas for making the most of important relationships. Todd discusses topics such as intentional dating, moving on from past mistakes, the strengthening of love after marriage, and the biblical perspective on sex. He emphasizes the importance of God at the center of relationships and provides strategies for overcoming common obstacles in modern relationships.
The Blessed Life
Robert Morris
In 'The Blessed Life', Robert Morris presents a biblical perspective on what it means to live a blessed life, both financially and spiritually. He emphasizes the importance of generosity and how it can transform every aspect of life. The book includes personal stories, biblical insights, and testimonies from those who have experienced the impact of living generously.
The Speed of Trust
The One Thing That Changes Everything
Stephen Covey
This book emphasizes that trust is the basis of the new global economy and demonstrates how trust functions in every transaction and relationship. It provides practical advice on establishing trust immediately to avoid bureaucratic check-and-balance processes, highlighting cores such as integrity, intent, and capabilities. With over two million copies sold, it is an essential read for business leaders and public figures to understand and build trust effectively.
"Greatness is actually fulfilling what you’re called to do."
Today's guest is Michael Todd, the lead pastor of Transformation Church. His driving passion is representing God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ. His sermons have been viewed over 50 million times online and he recently wrote the book Relationship Goals: How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex as well as Relationship Goals Challenge: Thirty Days from Good to Great.
In this episode Lewis and Michael discuss why we should be focusing on progression not perfection, the three main qualities every relationship should be founded on, how to start believing in yourself and all you have to offer, and so much more!