Everyone Is Right

Cracking the Code of Human Development

Sep 4, 2025
In this engaging conversation, Alexander Love, a coach and integrative specialist, explores the revolutionary Stages model of human development. He emphasizes that true understanding stems from recognizing the unique developmental lens through which individuals perceive the world. The discussion highlights how communication failures arise from differing perspectives and how Love's three-question methodology can streamline connections. Topics dive into the significance of individual versus collective identities and the intricate layers of empathy, providing valuable insights for fostering deeper interpersonal relationships.
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INSIGHT

Different Realities Of Meaning Making

  • People live in different realities because they make meaning through different developmental lenses.
  • Recognizing someone's developmental range lets you understand and love them more precisely.
INSIGHT

Stages Are Ranges, Not Fixed Steps

  • Development is messy and people hold a range rather than a single fixed stage.
  • You can have a center of gravity with leading and lagging edges across stages.
ADVICE

Meet People At Their Meaning-Making

  • When communicating, meet people where their meaning-making actually is instead of speaking over them.
  • Use developmental awareness as an empathy and connection tool, not as an evaluation trick.
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