

Is Your Relationship Starting To Feel Boring? Here's Why (with Nicholas Velotta)
Jun 2, 2025
56:31
Welcome back! Today we're joined by sexologist, relationship scientist, and head of relationship research at Arya, Nicholas Velotta.
what we talk about:
- why (and how) every couple should use Arya
- the 4 sexual personas and how to learn which one you are
- misaligned sex drives in relationships
- the problem with the 5 love languages
- the orgasm gap
- how to feel more sexy and confident
- why we crave the early days of a relationship
- why long term relationships can start to feel boring (and how to fix it)
& more
Find Nicholas on Instagram @mind_on_love and sign up for Arya to learn your sexual persona and start improving your sex life.
As always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
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