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Jan 17, 2026 Exploring the roots of aggression, the discussion reveals how personality traits can predict antisocial behavior. Early childhood patterns highlight that some toddlers are naturally aggressive, but socialization can significantly alter these tendencies. Benefits of rough play are emphasized, teaching children trust and boundaries. The conversation also delves into how charm can be used manipulatively, and the importance of teaching kids courage over fear. Finally, it encourages confronting societal issues rather than remaining complicit, urging personal responsibility in fostering social order.
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Early Aggression Often Normalizes
- Some children are naturally aggressive at age two, and many are male.
- Most aggressive two-year-olds are socialized by age four through play and parental guidance.
Use Play To Socialize Aggression
- Encourage rough-and-tumble play to teach children bodily limits and trust.
- Let them play at the edge of danger so they learn what hurts and what stays in the game.
Play Deprivation Harms Development
- Depriving play causes prefrontal deficits and behaviors like ADHD in rats.
- Schools that force long sitting periods may push children toward medication instead of activity.