Good Work with Barrett Brooks Finding Your Voice: How to Outgrow the Need to Prove Yourself with Michael Gendler
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Jan 15, 2026 
Michael Gendler, co-founder of UltraSpeaking and public speaking coach, shares his journey from a shy immigrant to a confident communicator. He unpacks the importance of self-acceptance over relentless striving, revealing how grit can transform into a cage. Listeners will learn about the power of flow in high-stakes communication, the psychological blocks that hold people back, and techniques for memorable speaking. Gendler's insights challenge traditional public speaking advice, emphasizing inner confidence and emotional connection over polished performance.
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Freestyle Rapping Unlocked On-Spot Creation
- Michael Gendler learned freestyle rap by practicing five-minute continuous sessions and refusing to stop after mistakes.
- That rule unlocked rapid improvement and revealed improvisation was accessible, not mystical.
Early Promotion Fueled Proving Behavior
- Being moved ahead a grade created a persistent insecurity that drove Michael to prove himself.
- That early feeling of not belonging became the fuel for achievement and a long-term drive to compensate.
Happiness Shifted From Achievement To Noticing
- Michael's old happiness equated hard work and achievement with fulfillment.
- His current view is curiosity and noticing patterns; goals alone no longer guarantee lasting happiness.
