Raising Good Humans Ep 81: Discipline Q and A with Dr. Aliza
Feb 12, 2021
Dive into the world of effective parenting strategies with insights on the balance between discipline and emotional support. Learn how to navigate toddler emotions with calmness and compassion while implementing behavior modification techniques. Discover ways to engage verbally demanding four-year-olds in quiet activities without stifling self-expression. Emphasize teaching patience and the importance of reframing discipline as a nurturing opportunity for communication and growth.
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Use Rewards Wisely
- Use rewards selectively and pair them with emotional connection to teach internal decision-making.
- Avoid constant external rewards so children don't become dependent on approval for good behavior.
Handle 'Why' Without Burnout
- Turn toddler "why" questions back to them by asking "Why do you think?" to build thinking skills.
- Limit whys by offering a set number (e.g., "three more whys") and revisit later to avoid meltdown overload.
Respectful 'No' With Firm Boundaries
- Acknowledge a child's refusal then set boundaries and offer choices for cooperation.
- Teach that saying no is allowed for bodily autonomy but parents still require some actions like dressing.