Exploring the origins and prevalence of ghosting in different relationships, including Billie Eilish's experience. Discussion on the mental health impact and coping strategies for being ghosted. Insights from various countries on cultural influences and reasons behind ghosting behavior.
Ghosting affects self-esteem and relationships, leading to anxiety and uncertainty.
Ghosting is a global phenomenon with cultural variations, often used to avoid discomfort in relationships.
Deep dives
Impact of Ghosting on Individuals
Ghosting does not only occur in dating contexts but also in various relationships like friendships and job interviews. This behavior can leave individuals feeling uncertain and distressed, questioning what went wrong and impacting their self-esteem negatively. The lack of closure from being ghosted can lead to anxiety and affect future relationships, as highlighted by a psychosexual therapist from London.
Global Perspectives on Ghosting
Ghosting is a prevalent phenomenon worldwide, with people from different countries sharing their experiences. From Nigeria to France, individuals discuss instances of ghosting in dating scenarios, highlighting cultural variations in how this behavior is perceived. Ghosting is often viewed as a means to protect oneself from discomfort or confrontation, reflecting a universal aspect of human relationships.
Dealing with Ghosting and Self-Worth
Recovery from being ghosted involves acknowledging and discussing emotions with friends and family. Psychosexual therapist Sylvia emphasizes self-compassion and self-worth, reassuring individuals that being ghosted does not define their value. By reframing ghosting as a reflection of the ghoster's insecurities rather than personal shortcomings, individuals can rebuild their self-esteem and approach future relationships with confidence.
She may be one of music's biggest stars, but it turns out even Billie Eilish is not immune to being ghosted. The ‘Bad Guy’ singer recently opened up about her experience on a BBC podcast, and it got us thinking about why ghosting feels so pervasive and hurtful.
So, in this episode, we’re chatting about all things ghosting: where the term came from, what it means, and why it makes us feel so bad. We hear from listeners in Colombia, Nigeria, the United States and France who have been ghosted - or done the ghosting. And Sylvia Anim - a psychosexual therapist in London - shares tips on how to look out for yourself if it happens to you.
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Presenter: Hannah Gelbart with William Lee Adams
Producer: Mora Morrison
Editor: Julia Ross-Roy
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