

Savage Lovecast Episode 973
9 snips Jun 24, 2025
This week’s guest, Sacha Coward, is a historian and writer specializing in LGBTQ+ history, and author of 'Queer as Folklore.' He discusses fascinating interpretations of folklore, including 'The Little Mermaid' as a trans allegory and the unexpected portrayal of pornographic unicorns. The conversation also dives into queer narratives in animation and how history shapes modern identities. Listeners share personal relationship dilemmas, touching on substance use and the challenges of leaving a restrictive upbringing.
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Demand Mutual Sexual Effort
- If your partner consistently doesn't reciprocate in pleasuring you, consider ending the relationship.
- Insist on mutual care in intimacy, or give it a firm deadline before moving on.
Balance Weed Use and Relationship
- Accept your partner's marijuana use if it helps them be a good, loving person.
- Set boundaries if usage increases or impacts the relationship negatively.
Negotiate Relationship Autonomy
- Negotiate autonomy in your relationship to have space for your personal growth.
- Discuss desires and possibly open the relationship to explore a "slutty phase."