Love Factually My Best Friend's Wedding (1997)
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Dec 29, 2025 Explore the complexities of narcissism and love when a best friend falls for an ex. Delve into the dynamics of friendship versus romance, and the dangers of pursuing taken partners. Discover the captivating character of George as a moral center amid chaotic relationships. The hosts critique the film's portrayal of commitment and ethical dilemmas, questioning the morality of confessing love at a wedding. With personal memories and insightful analysis, the conversation navigates timeless romantic complications.
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Union Station And Discovering The Film
- Eli recalls collecting survey data at Union Station and people filled surveys while waiting for Julia Roberts to run through.
- He initially missed many 90s rom-coms until a college girlfriend introduced him to this movie.
Friends Can Be Platonic, Exes Are Tricky
- Straight men and women can be close friends without sexual attraction derailing the bond.
- But keeping an ex as a backburner romantic option harms future relationship prospects.
Going All In Costs And Pays
- Kimmy stops keeping score and moves from exchange to communal care, which builds trust and closeness.
- Going all in increases intimacy but also raises the risk of being hurt, a core trade-off in relationships.