

295: Matthew and Audrey Solo: What to Do When Someone Pulls Away, Managing Social Anxiety, and Our Quarterly Audit for 2025
16 snips May 7, 2025
In this lively discussion, Matthew and Audrey tackle the complexities of romantic interest and social anxiety. They highlight how perfectionism can sabotage communication, leading to disconnection. With tips on overcoming overthinking and embracing authenticity, they explore the balance between showing interest and maintaining personal boundaries. The duo also shares insights on navigating relationships and the importance of self-reflection, all while keeping things relatable with humor and real-life examples.
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Be Authentically Interested
- Avoid playing hard to get as a long-term strategy in dating.
- Express genuine interest authentically to attract the right people and avoid unhealthy relationships.
Balance Interest and Boundaries
- Show authentic interest early in dating without acting like you know the relationship's future.
- Withdraw interest if it's unreciprocated without trying to manipulate a response.
Perfectionism Delays Responses
- Perfectionism and overthinking often delay communication and cause guilt.
- Waiting for the perfect response can lead to unintentionally ignoring people and damaging relationships.