The Daily Dad

Teach Them Early, Teach Them Often

Apr 9, 2020

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The podcast discusses the importance of teaching children skills and knowledge during their formative years when their minds are receptive and their brains are developing. It emphasizes the benefits of exposing children to various learning experiences such as language acquisition and musical instrument proficiency during this crucial period.

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Teaching skills early provides children with a strong foundation for future learning and a greater capacity to absorb information.

Children have a unique advantage of time and impressionability, allowing parents to shape their mental maps and neural pathways through early exposure to various skills.

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Importance of teaching skills early

Teaching skills early is crucial as it allows children to learn and absorb information more easily. When we're young and our minds are pliable, our brains are more receptive to new experiences and knowledge. By teaching children important skills early on, such as language learning, dancing, tying a tie, computer programming, or playing the piano, we provide them with a strong foundation for future learning. Early exposure to a variety of skills helps develop their range and cultivates a love for learning. It's never too late to start, but starting early offers numerous benefits.

Teaching Children Early: Seizing the Window of Opportunity

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Each of us, no matter how old or successful, has things we wish we knew how to do. We wish we could speak another language, or change the oil in our own car, or play the guitar. It’s not that we aren’t up for learning these things now—more so even than when we were young—but it’s hard to teach an old dog new tricks, as they say, even when the dog wants to learn.

It can be a frustrating experience. Sometimes, when the desire is deep enough but the capacity for comprehension is not, it can even produce resentment toward our own parents for not encouraging or teaching us these skills earlier—when we had less going on, when our mind was more pliable, when we had the time.

The French philosopher Jean de la Bruyère (who we’ve quoted before) has spoken about the importance of laying the foundation for language learning in our children: “when the soul naturally receives everything, is deeply impressed by it, and when the memory is fresh, quick, and steady.”

That is, as early as possible. It’s true for more than just picking up française or español.

When we’re young our mental maps have yet to be fully drawn. Our neural pathways are still being carved. Our brains are lumps of clay waiting to be molded--by exposure, by experience, by accident, by parents. When we’re young, our view of the world has not yet been colored by the kind of preconceptions, desires, and passions that seem to define what is possible for adults. Kids aren’t tied down by the familiar and they aren’t yet burdened by the responsibilities that adults know too well. They can be excited easily with games, they are impressionable, they are not yet jaded, and, most of all, they have time. They have so much time.

You have to recognize that they are clay in your hands. You have to help them seize this window. You have to help them open their minds.

Jean de la Bruyère said that language especially will “clear the way for the acquisition of solid learning.” But so will dancing, learning to tie a tie, computer programming, drawing, piano, and a million other skills. More is better, as we’ve said before. Help them develop range. Let them learn to love not only the benefits of range but the pride of depth and the process of acquiring both.

It’s not too late. But earlier is better.

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