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Date Nights: Why they Suck & How to Make them Great

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Feb 11, 2025
Explore the complexities of date nights and their impact on relationships. Discover why traditional date nights might not be the solution. Delve into the significance of eye contact and vulnerability in fostering genuine connections. Uncover creative ideas to revitalize romance through novelty and adventure. Learn how spontaneous interactions can enhance intimacy amidst life's demands. Join a discussion about the challenges couples face and innovative ways to bring joy back into shared experiences.
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INSIGHT

Date Night is Not a Panacea

  • Date nights are not a guaranteed fix for relationship issues.
  • Many couples experience boredom and disconnection despite regular date nights.
ANECDOTE

Awkward Date Nights

  • Glennon Doyle recalls a previous relationship where prescribed date nights worsened their connection issues.
  • Sitting in expensive restaurants only highlighted their lack of conversation.
INSIGHT

Unknowing Your Partner

  • Early dating aims to get to know someone, but long-term dating should focus on "unknowing" them.
  • Familiarity can breed boredom, so reintroducing novelty and surprise is key.
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