
John Mark Comer Teachings Confess Your Sins | Community E3
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Nov 17, 2025 In this engaging discussion, John Mark Comer, a pastor and author focused on spiritual formation, delves into the challenges of authentic community. He highlights modern barriers like busyness and distraction, pinpointing shame as the root cause of disconnection. Comer advocates for the often-missed practice of confession as a healing tool, contrasting private and communal approaches. He emphasizes that confession not only liberates us from shame but also fosters deeper connections with God and each other, outlining practical steps to integrate this practice into our lives.
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Pastor's Leadership Breakdown
- A pastor friend resigned after a leadership breakdown and now feels anxious entering new communities.
- His fear of repeat hurt makes him question trust and risks self-sabotaging new relationships.
Shame As The Core Fallout
- Humanity was created for relational vulnerability, shown by Adam and Eve being naked with no shame.
- Shame is the primary aftermath of the Fall and explains why sin breaks connection with God and others.
Shame Is Fear Of Being Unlovable
- Shame is more than feeling bad; it's a deep fear of being unlovable that triggers hiding and disconnection.
- This psychosomatic fear drives much relational dysfunction and self-protection.




