Not Alone Speaking My Truth: Brittany Xavier on Online Hate, Her Faith & Her Family
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In this revealing episode of Not Alone, Valeria sits down with an OG digital creator, entrepreneur and mom Brittany Xavier, for an honest conversation about faith, motherhood, and staying grounded in a rapidly changing online world. Brittany opens up about her early start on social media, the business behind her brand, and the journey from being a young single mother to one of the most recognizable figures in the influencer space. She shares how trusting in God’s plan guided her through life’s biggest turning points, from choosing to keep her baby and balancing school, work, and motherhood, to navigating a difficult custody battle and ultimately finding her voice through content creation.
Together, Valeria and Brittany explore what it means to live authentically online, the lessons she’s passed down to her daughter about social media and technology, and how her family’s move from California to Tennessee brought both public scrutiny and peace. It’s a conversation about growth, resilience, and choosing faith and family over everything, and a reminder that the most powerful influence comes from being true to who you are.
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brittanyxavier/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brittany.xavier?lang=en
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/brittanyxavier
Website: https://brittanyxavier.com/
Brittany’s Book Recommendations:
The Case for Christ: A Journalist's Personal Investigation of the Evidence for Jesus:
I Don't Have Enough Faith to Be an Atheist: https://amzn.to/4ob6B9S
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What we talked about:
0:29 - Valeria’s upcoming trip to Peru
0:47 - Introducing Brittany Xavier
2:12 - Start of interview
2:45 - Brittany’s start on social media
4:39 - The business behind the posts
6:33 - Brittany’s early motherhood days
7:30 - The decision to keep her baby
13:02 - Being a young mother
15:06 - Floatley Ad
16:15 - Balancing school, work and motherhood
18:42 - The decision not to pursue law school
20:42 - Trusting her faith in God and his plan for her
22:25 - Her custody battle
23:14 - Signs from God
24:33 - Her community
25:26 - Her daughter and social media
27:25 - Children and technology
28:22 - Teaching her daughter the business side of TikTok
29:31 - Brittany’s shift in content
32:16 - The shifting of priorities
33:52 - The decision to leave California
36:26 - Backlash on their move to Tennessee
39:49 - Dealing with the online hate
43:36 - Being her most authentic self online
48:13 - Bringing faith to the forefront
49:50 - Brittany’s book recommendations
52:22 - Her biggest regret
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