Jillian on Love Do Not Settle.
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Jun 23, 2025 Explore the intriguing balance between chemistry and safety in romantic relationships. Discover how stress can cloud perceptions of partners and the importance of self-connection for nurturing love. Small habits truly matter for keeping attraction alive over time. Jillian highlights the perils of self-sabotage and stresses the value of shared values in building healthier connections. Delve into creative ways to sustain communication and mindfulness, making long-term relationships thrive.
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Chemistry and Safety Coexist
- Chemistry is essential for a romantic connection and goes beyond physical attraction to include emotional and intellectual aspects.
- You don't have to choose between intense chemistry and safety; a fulfilling relationship combines both.
Chemistry Can Cloud Judgment
- Chemistry can make us overlook red flags and convince us to stay with people who don't share our values or are toxic.
- Early attraction may distort perception, making chemistry unreliable alone for healthy relationship choices.
Long-term Love Needs Balance
- Expecting the honeymoon phase's intensity to last forever is immaturity and unrealistic.
- Long-term relationships thrive on friendship and safety but also need nurturing of passion and excitement to avoid feeling dull.