Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Extremely Clingy and Whiny Since Grandma Moved In

Mar 12, 2017

A mother discusses her concerns about her dependent and clingy 22-month-old daughter since her mother-in-law moved in. The host advises setting confident boundaries and trusting in one's own parenting. They also provide tips for handling opposition from grandparents and supporting a mother in a challenging situation.

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The primary caregiver plays a significant role in shaping a child's self-confidence and personality.

Establishing boundaries and being consistent with them can help manage clingy and demanding behavior in children.

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The Power of the Primary Caregiver

The primary caregiver holds the most influence over a child, even in situations where another family member, like a mother-in-law, is involved. The primary caregiver's relationship with the child is what truly shapes their self-confidence and personality.

Introduction

2min

Dealing with an Extremely Clingy and Whiny Toddler

3min

Clingy and Whiny Toddler: Setting Boundaries and Trusting in Your Own Parenting

14min

Handling Opposition and Being a Confident Leader

4min

Supporting a Mother in a Challenging Situation

2min

A mother who has tried to raise her 22-month-old daughter with a sense of confidence and independence says that since her mother-in-law moved into the house, her daughter has become “the epitome of dependent… clingy, whiny and stubborn.” She believes this new household dynamic is undermining her as a parent and “has ruined my girl.”

For more of Janet's respectful care advice, please check out her new audio series SESSIONS, her recorded consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns in detail: SessionsAudio.com

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