#043—HOLDING THE STORM: SAFETY, EMBARRASSMENT & THE FOUR C'S - S4 E7

In this episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric confronts the invisible undercurrent destroying relationships: men's fear of embarrassment colliding with women's need for safety. Recording in the raw aftermath of his own emotional trigger with Rachael, he unveils how masculine anger masks deeper shame while feminine expression emerges from a perpetual state of emergency response. The breakthrough revelation? Men avoid situations where they might appear incompetent while women develop competence purely to ensure safety. Eric introduces his transformative "emergency room doctor" approach, challenging men to embody the four essential C's—Competence, Confidence, Context, and Clarity—while remaining an unshakable presence during feminine emotional storms.

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About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.