Conscious Dominance

In this episode, Eric explores conscious dominance as an art form that transcends traditional masculine energy and control-based leadership. He reveals why conscious masculinity requires thinking like an artist rather than an engineer, embracing mystery and relational volatility as raw material for authentic leadership and spiritual growth. Eric breaks down the difference between old-paradigm dominance that seeks to control feminine energy, versus conscious dominance that creates space for your partner's full expression while maintaining masculine presence and emotional regulation.He gets practical about masculine development and relationship mastery—how to hold space for emotional complexity without being reactive, why curiosity trumps control in relationship dynamics, and how conscious communication creates atmosphere rather than just managing outcomes. From dealing with feminine storm energy to understanding that relationship transformation happens through reverence for the unknown, Eric explores how masculine spirituality and emotional intelligence work together in conscious relationships. This is about becoming the artist of your relational experience, using vulnerability and emotional awareness to create intimate connection and relationship empowerment through conscious partnership and spiritual masculinity.About Conscious DominanceThe Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this episode, Eric and Rachael explore what happens after the silence is broken in relationship dynamics. When someone finally speaks their truth about emotional burden and invisible labor, the real question becomes: what will you do with it? They break down the difference between taking someone's relationship pain away versus taking it on, and why one builds intimate connection while the other keeps couples stuck in the same patterns of avoiding discomfort.Eric and Rachael get practical about the craft of conscious discomfort—how to choose your pain and reframe it as fuel instead of burden, why resistance creates suffering while feeling creates connection in partnership dynamics. From domestic responsibility like carrying groceries to emotional caretaking when your partner is overwhelmed, they explore masculine leadership that begins after awareness, the energy behind your effort, and why loving the work matters more than just doing it. They share the connection between relationship stagnation and invisible labor, plus how transforming struggle through conscious dominance creates relationship maturity when you become the one who notices without being asked.About Conscious DominanceThe Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About RachaelFondly known as a sensory-sommelier and catalytic-conversationalist, Rachael Dunville works globally as an avant-garde intimacy artist and movement muse at her acclaimed company AEROSHA, founded in 2008. Schedule a 1:1 session with Rachael: https://aerosha.as.me/schedule/c588dcc1/appointment/11783628/calendar/2143007?appointmentTypeIds[]=11783628Learn more about Rachael & AEROSHA on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/aerosha/https://www.aerosha.art/About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this powerful episode of Conscious Dominance, Eric invites Rachael to dive deeper into their insights on pain and how mindful presence can transform it into fuel for growth and creativity. They explore how men and women in masculine and feminine poles handle discomfort differently within intentional relationships.Rachael reveals the invisible emotional and logistical labor women often carry and shares her journey of learning to use her authentic voice instead of performing "fine." The conversation explores David Deida's relationship stages, moving from self-interest to empathy within conscious relationships. Eric discusses how taking on a woman's pain becomes fuel for masculine transformation, while Rachael explains the discomfort of receiving care and voicing truth without apology.Drawing from Brene Brown's work on empathy, this episode offers couples practical insights to transform hidden pain into honest intimacy through conscious effort and presence.About Conscious DominanceThe Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About RachaelFondly known as a sensory-sommelier and catalytic-conversationalist, Rachael Dunville works globally as an avant-garde intimacy artist and movement muse at her acclaimed company AEROSHA, founded in 2008. Schedule a 1:1 session with Rachael: https://aerosha.as.me/schedule/c588dcc1/appointment/11783628/calendar/2143007?appointmentTypeIds[]=11783628Learn more about Rachael & AEROSHA on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/aerosha/https://www.aerosha.art/About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this compelling interview from “The Sensual Underground Podcast,” Ildiko Csamay sits down with Eric to ask him to dive deep into the philosophy and practice of conscious dominance, the DSRX relationship model, and the beautiful paradoxes inherent in power dynamics and committed relationships. Originally aired as part of her "Dominant Men" series, this powerful interview showcases Ildiko's skillful exploration of conscious masculinity and leadership with depth and curiosity. Under Ildiko's thoughtful questioning, Eric shares his personal journey from mainstream BDSM into developing a more nuanced approach that honors both dominance and the full spectrum of feminine energy, creating space for growth, vulnerability, and authentic connection. Throughout the episode, Ildiko expertly hosts and guides Eric through explorations of how conscious dominance differs from reactive control, the importance of situational awareness in leadership, and how true polarity creates freedom rather than limitation. Ildiko leads them through discussions about the craft of hosting experiences, the role of devotion and service in relationships, and how embracing paradox—including moments of uncertainty and "retrograde" phases—can lead to deeper intimacy and personal evolution. This episode offers profound insights for anyone interested in conscious relationship dynamics, authentic masculinity, and the transformative power of intentional power exchange. We encourage you to explore more of Ildiko's thoughtful work on The Sensual Underground, with links to her podcast and social media platforms in the description below.About Conscious DominanceThe Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About Ildiko CsamayAuthor, copywriter, tarot reader, and podcast host, Ildiko Csamay's mission is to share "essential medicine for a world that has lost its libido." Her podcast, "The Sensual Underground" is not an intellectual construct, but the space where you reconnect with the vibrant pulse of your body.The Sensual Underground - The place where we exist, the MEANING that springs from our sensuality.Contact Ildiko directly on her website: https://www.dersinnlicheuntergrund.com/contactLearn more about Ildiko on Social Media:https://www.instagram.com/ildiko_csamay/https://www.youtube.com/@DerSinnlicheUntergrundAbout EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this episode of Conscious Dominance, Eric explains how most men unconsciously seek women as refuge from suffering, while women are conditioned to hide their pain to meet these expectations. Exploring the fundamental principle that masculine leadership and intimate connection are built on our capacity to navigate pain rather than avoid it, Eric reframes pain as a teacher and gateway to deeper relationship dynamics, Eric emphasizes understanding feminine energy cycles and menstrual cycle awareness as essential relationship communication skills, encouraging men to embrace masculine responsibility by holding space for their partner's natural rhythms rather than expecting constant availability. Through mindful relationships, couples can transform pain from something that creates suffering into a portal for relationship healing, deeper polarity, and authentic intimacy.About Conscious DominanceThe Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this transformative episode, Eric dismantles the misunderstood concept of certainty - revealing it's not arrogance or control, but your unshakeable capacity to choose your response in any moment. Drawing from Viktor Frankl's profound wisdom about the space between stimulus and response, Eric explores how true certainty becomes your anchor when external circumstances crumble.Eric reveals why hesitation equals failure, how to lead with embodied presence even when you lack all the answers, and the crucial difference between public certainty and private processing. Through raw stories of leadership under pressure - from construction sites to intimate relationship challenges - he demonstrates how to alchemize any difficult moment into growth. Looking for more updates? Join our new DSRX Newsletter here: https://www.aerosha.art/dsrx-mailinglistAbout Conscious DominanceThe Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this deeply personal conversation, Eric and Rachael unveil the revolutionary DSRX framework that emerged from their own relationship journey. Moving beyond traditional dominance and submission dynamics, they explore how genuine intimacy flourishes not through rigid roles, but through cycles of devotion, service, rest, and conscious repair. Drawing from ancient wisdom traditions, astrology, and their lived experience, Eric and Rachael reveal how apparent setbacks and "retrograde" moments aren't obstacles to overcome, but essential medicine for deepening connection. Whether you're curious about conscious relationships, struggling with rigid expectations, or ready to reframe what partnership can become, this conversation offers a refreshing perspective on love as both sanctuary and sacred practice.About Conscious DominanceThe Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About Rachael DunvilleFondly known as a sensory-sommelier and catalytic-conversationalist, Rachael Dunville works globally as an avant-garde intimacy artist and movement muse at her acclaimed company AEROSHA, founded in 2008. Schedule a 1:1 session with Rachael here or through the links on Aerosha's social media accounts.Learn more about Rachael & AEROSHA on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/aerosha/https://www.aerosha.art/About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this revealing episode of Conscious Dominance, Eric explores the nuanced difference between momentary "choking" and complete "collapse" in relationships, particularly within DS dynamics. Eric draws a powerful distinction between the inevitable moments when we energetically "choke" and the deeper pattern of full emotional collapse that can follow. Through vulnerable personal examples and client stories, Eric demonstrates how these momentary interruptions of presence become the foundation for growth when handled with consciousness. The most profound trust and erotic connection often emerge not from perfect performance, but from our ability to return to presence after briefly losing it.About Conscious DominanceThe Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

Kicking off Season 5 of Conscious Dominance, Eric reveals the counterintuitive first step to masculine leadership and relationship dynamics: mastering the art of saying "no" to yourself through self-discipline. Challenging conventional wisdom, he explains that before you can authentically practice conscious relationships and dominance, you must first develop unwavering self-mastery by intentionally abstaining from pleasures and distractions – the foundation of inner dominance. Eric provides tactical guidance on building this crucial skill through intentional restraint, spiritual discipline, and facing uncomfortable emotions head-on. Whether you're seeking a conscious framework to transform your relationships or simply strengthen your emotional resilience through self-control, this episode offers a provocative glimpse into how true dominance begins with the power of no and personal growth.About Conscious DominanceThe Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. Looking for more updates? Join our new DSRX Newsletter here: https://www.aerosha.art/dsrx-mailinglistAbout EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric revisits impactful moments from Seasons 3 and 4. Focusing on mindful leadership, personal growth, and the intricacies of committed relationships, episodes feature Andrew from Infinite Devotion and Rachael Dunville from Aerosha. The episode delves into the importance of taking responsibility, communicating clearly, and living authentically. Practical insights and personal anecdotes highlight the journey from unconscious dominance to conscious dominance, emphasizing the importance of grit, grace, and ongoing self-reflection.About Conscious DominanceThe Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About AndrewYou can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man: https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man-1Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on Youtube or by clicking here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcasts/dom-sub-devotionAbout RachaelFondly known as a sensory-sommelier and catalytic-conversationalist, Rachael Dunville works globally as an avant-garde intimacy artist and movement muse at her acclaimed company AEROSHA, founded in 2008. Schedule a 1:1 session with Rachael here: https://aerosha.as.me/schedule/c588dcc1/appointment/11783628/calendar/2143007?appointmentTypeIds[]=11783628Learn more about Rachael & AEROSHA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aerosha/About EricEric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.