Episode 188: Five Ways Self-Differentiation Builds Resilience
Aug 15, 2022
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Learn how self-differentiation builds resilience by viewing challenges as opportunities, boosting confidence through vulnerability, embracing uncertainty, and staying committed to goals and values as a non-anxious leader.
Self-differentiation builds resilience by enabling individuals to view challenges as opportunities rather than threats.
Self-differentiation boosts confidence by encouraging individuals to realistically assess weaknesses and take intentional action, creating momentum for persistence.
Deep dives
Embracing Reality and Viewing Challenges as Opportunities
Self-differentiation enables individuals to embrace reality and view challenges as opportunities rather than threats. Research shows that resilient people are realistic about their circumstances and do not exaggerate the difficulties they face. They see challenges as something they can work through, enabling them to take positive action. Self-differentiated leaders understand that the only thing they can control is their response, and they focus on finding ways to address challenges instead of feeling overwhelmed.
Boosting Confidence and Finding a Sense of Control
Self-differentiation boosts confidence by encouraging individuals to realistically assess their weaknesses and take intentional action. Non-anxious leaders break down challenges into smaller steps and focus on the next action that needs to be taken. By doing so, they build confidence and create momentum for persistence. Self-differentiation also enables individuals to find a sense of control in challenging situations by recognizing that they always have a choice in how they respond. It activates the prefrontal cortex, allowing for self-regulation and a focus on positive, intentional responses.