Death, Sex & Money Paid to Care: When Class, Power, and Caregiving Collide
Jan 14, 2025
In this discussion, Koa Beck, a writer and foster parent, reveals the intricate dynamics of foster care and its striking parallels to nannying. She shares Delores's journey as a Jamaican nanny in NYC, navigating cultural nuances and parental expectations. The conversation dives into the complexities of class and power in caregiving, touching on the emotional bonds formed between caregivers and the families they serve. Additionally, Koa highlights the significance of community support for those involved in care work, particularly in the face of challenges like multiple sclerosis.
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The Interview Book
- Dolores, a New York City nanny for 30 years, uses an "interview book" to track employer expectations and her own needs.
- This helps her navigate power dynamics and negotiate better terms.
Modern Parenting
- Modern parents are "fussy" and over-reliant on nannies.
- Nannies often provide not only childcare but also parenting advice and employer guidance.
Nanny Knows Best
- Anna Sale's nanny, Purbu, noticed her baby was cold and hungry, offering crucial early parenting advice.
- Dolores suggests formula supplements for fuller nighttime feedings, demonstrating nannies' insightful care.
