The Dr Louise Newson Podcast 18 - Hayley and Jay: a 30-year battle for the right diagnosis
Jul 29, 2025
Hayley and her son Jay share their inspiring journey through decades of misdiagnosis and mental health struggles. After years of ineffective treatments, Jay discovers the crucial link between hormones and Hayley’s mental well-being. Their emotional story highlights the need for greater awareness of hormonal impacts on mental health. The duo discusses their advocacy for better healthcare and the transformative effects of hormone replacement therapy. This poignant conversation calls for systemic change and offers hope to others facing similar challenges.
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Early Postnatal Psychiatric Crisis
- Hayley first experienced severe psychiatric symptoms after childbirth at age 17 and again with later children.
- She was admitted to psychiatric wards, given antipsychotics and ECT, and separated from her baby while they tried to find a mother-and-baby unit.
Cyclical Preperiod Breakdown
- Hayley described intense premenstrual anger, panic attacks and violent outbursts that preceded periods.
- She and her doctors never connected these cyclical symptoms to hormones during decades of psychiatric care.
Son Became A Young Carer
- Jay recounts decades of his mum's absence due to hospitalisations and the family taking on caring roles.
- He became a young carer and believes earlier hormone treatment might have preserved Hayley's career and family life.
