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2375: Four Big Mistakes Parents Make When They Talk About Death by Shelby Forsythia on Parenthood & Emotional Health

Nov 9, 2024

Explore the pivotal mistakes parents make when discussing death with their kids. Misleading euphemisms can confuse children, leaving them unable to process loss. The host emphasizes the importance of honest, age-appropriate conversations. Children appreciate clear truths over ambiguity. These discussions not only foster understanding but also support emotional resilience. Learn how to guide little ones through grief and help them express their feelings about loss.

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Parents should avoid euphemisms when discussing death to prevent confusion, as children interpret language literally and require clear explanations.

Creating an open dialogue about death fosters emotional understanding, allowing children to grieve authentically and process their feelings healthily.

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The Importance of Honest Communication

Parents often make the mistake of using euphemisms when discussing death with their children. This can lead to confusion, as children interpret language literally and may develop misunderstandings about death. For instance, telling a child that a deceased loved one has simply gone to sleep can instill fear about sleeping or cause them to believe they can bring that person back. Instead, providing age-appropriate, straightforward explanations helps children process the reality of death and encourages them to ask questions, gaining clarity in the process.

Intro

8min

Navigating Conversations About Death with Children

2min

Navigating Honest Conversations about Death in Parenthood

2min

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Episode 2375:

Shelby Forsythia highlights common missteps parents make when talking to children about death. From using confusing euphemisms to avoiding the topic entirely, these mistakes hinder kids' understanding of death. Forsythia encourages honest, age-appropriate conversations that help children process loss and grief in healthy ways.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/@shelbyforsythia/four-big-mistakes-parents-make-when-they-talk-about-death-533e619a5eb1

Quotes to ponder:

"Children take things very literally! They are not able to process euphemisms like adults and as a result take words about death seriously."

"All relationships are unique and different, and no matter what kind of support system they have in place, children still need to grieve the person or pet who died."

"Kids are far more impacted by the absence of truth than by the truth itself."

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