With The Perrys Part 2: Dating After 30, Singleness, and Other Questions Answered
Sep 2, 2025
In this thought-provoking discussion, Ebenezer Endiryas, a pastor and host of the Shaping The Culture Podcast, and Megan Ashley, a leader in the Christian community and host of the In Totality Podcast, dive into dating after 30. They explore how community can enhance connections, the impact of emotional intelligence in relationships, and the nuances of leading someone on. The conversation emphasizes reflecting on God's sovereignty rather than fixating on 'the one,' highlighting the need for humility and genuine connections in navigating modern dating.
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Bring Online Matches Into Local Community
- If you meet someone online, invite them into your local community so your friends and brothers in Christ can assess them.
- Use local interactions to test reality before committing to a relationship.
Emotional Isolation Skews Courtship
- Men often mistake emotional connection from women for romantic interest because they lack emotional connection with other men.
- This gap drives confusion in courtship and can be eased by brotherly relationships.
Stop Leading People On
- Stop entertaining people just for male attention and address the root causes like loneliness or unresolved relational wounds.
- Read 1 John and repent from playing with people's emotions as a step toward healthier dating.
